An Open Letter

I was thinking about the loneliness epidemic – it’s not like there’s suddenly some massive mismatch between people, like it’s not a “supply” issue. I think because of how virtualized the world has become, it’s suddenly way easier to disconnect from in-person interactions, and to somewhat avoid community inadvertently. I think this is somewhat empowering in a way, since I realized how I have much more agency than I would think in this. For example in the new graduates slack channel at my work, I have the power to initiate and forge new connections, and that’s something incredibly valued by others. Like the two people I have plans to go to dance classes with, that was so dirt-easy to get, all from just briefly mentioning that I have been doing dance classes. Imagine if I organize an event, or if I make it even easier with all the techniques and strategies I’ve learned and practiced over the years. I have so much control over socialization, and I have the ability to forge new connections and be that extroverted person that is the central hub. I think this can also apply to stuff like a relationship, I just need to meet and interact with more people and find someone that matches up with me in those ways and I’m set — at least for the opportunity. It could really be that easy. I’ve almost turned that into my mantra — it’s that easy.