An Open Letter

I’m really tired and so short post, but we had Our first date today! All Things considered it ended up being eight hours, and I’m not like super overjoyed with myself for it being that long because I really wanted to be intentional with not confusing, intimacy with intensity, and we did talk a little bit about trauma dumping topics, which is also not great but we talked about a lot of other stuff and so I’m really happy with how the date went. I also find myself pacing things a little bit better at least than it happened in the past so I am happy with that. And I really do. Think she’s a cool person and I find her funny and easy to talk to. There are a lot of things that are green flags, and a couple beige ones. Here’s to hoping.