Catch
I know I grew up struggling with self-esteem, and I have worked hard to get to where I am now. I want to believe it, and let it sink in. Combined with the stuff I learned about the liking gap and the acceptance prophecy, I think it is a good thing to remind myself and build my self-confidence back up, and I guess I’m doing that through affirmations again.
I truly believe that I am a catch of a partner. I am very physically fit, and I am very happy with the way that I look. I also have a great job, and am well educated and successful both academically and career-wise. I am outgoing and charismatic with new people, and I have a great sense of humor. I value being kind, empathetic, and compassionate. I am emotionally sound but have also had my fair share of struggles, which have given me a further depth in life. I have my own hobbies and interests I am passionate about, and I am genuinely interested in those of others.
This feels cringe to say, especially by myself, but I know that this is a proven way to help build up my confidence and see the above points about the liking gap. I know I will find some amazing people in San Diego!