I forgor to cbt
Kinda quick, because I forgot yesterday but have been doing better anyway!
Situation: potentially drifting apart from friend
Thoughts: Don't want to lose it, don't know if I will get it again.
Feelings: feel afraid, alone, and anxious.
Behavior: will be way more insecure around friend, will try to force it to not leave. Will not enjoy moment.
And for better:
Thoughts: enjoy the experiences I had with them, I will have more, maybe with them and maybe not.
Feelings: more in the moment, peaceful, less dependent.
Behavior: more independent, and so more secure. Not going to push person away by being clingy! Also more happy and more present.