It’s in the eyes // 5 hours gone in a blink
She asked me if I wanted to go to a mountain Park/viewpoint today and I said yes and moved plans around for that. We ended up talking for five hours. We also just drove around a lot talking, walked around the beach, sat on the Bluffs and talked for a while. We talked about a lot of different intimate topics, and got to know each other pretty damn fast. I very much do like her a lot, and I think that she is has a lot of the qualities that I was looking for which is kind of scary because I didn’t even mention them and she mentioned them first. But I also do recognize that I should not blind myself with all of the good things so quickly. I will say however that there were several both good and bad signals.
Good:
- She said that she trusts me as a person
- We have a lot of things in common and she aligns with a lot of the things that I was looking for
- We were able to have a lot of good chemistry in conversation
- We have compatible senses of humor
- She was being very flirty and doing things like punching me or making flirty jokes
- When I made fun of her accent for something she said and then I said how Indian accents aren’t sexy, she said so you think my accent is sexy?
- She told me that something I said was hot and it made her flustered
- We do align on several core values like kids
- Something unfortunate happened because she left her car in the park and the park got locked off, but she handled it pretty well
- When I asked her if my car was the one that was left there would she have driven me back 40 minutes, and she said absolutely no questions
Bad:
- She did also have a similar length relationship that ended around the same time mine did, which arguably is very recent
- She just had to put her dog down, and is emotionally dealing with a lot of grief understandably
- We did talk about exes
- There were certain points where she indicated that she often asks questions but does not necessarily have an answer prepared herself
- We did have a five hour long “date”? That was also mixed with emotional support