Oh my LORD!
Hot damn. So I matched with someone on Hinge, and she is so fucking funny. We both have the same energy, she is incredibly funny, and also very cute! I find her very attractive, and she also finds me attractive and she’s also mentioned how she finds me funny and smart – two things she really likes. I’ve been texting her for about 3 hours now, and it’s almost 2 am in the morning. She’s just so easy to talk to.
I’m actually gonna keep this fairly short because I’d rather be texting her right now than talking to anyone – so here comes some half-assed CBT.
Situation: Cute girl has very hot personality, and is attracted to me. She also seems incredibly compatible, and we click very well.
Thoughts: I will do ANYTHING to not lose this, including altering my personality.
Feelings: YAY! I GET HAPPY RELATIONSHIP WITH AWESOME PERSON!
Behavior: I may get the relationship, but end up changing who I am throughout the relationship, which is not a good thing – either that or I surpress who I am.
Thoughts: I think this person likes me for who I am inherently, I don’t have to act a different way. I should act however I feel natural, that way it is sustainable.
Feelings: I feel even better, because I caught a potential trap early, and I don’t even think it will ruin anything or be worse in any way.
Behavior: Hopefully the relationship!!! And if it does happen, this will be healthier as I get to be myself instead of acting a different way. And at the end of the day, if this doesn’t pan out it should be a great experience regardless – this should give me hope for the future, as this is another example of meeting someone who seems great.
God, I feel almost butterflies. Pace this bad boy out a bit, and enjoy it. Love you Anshuman ♥