An Open Letter

M did something today that I didn’t appreciate. Especially since she already bailed on 2 plans in the last week, and also delayed today’s plans by her bad planning by two hours. I asked for something simple, and she immediately didn’t do it after making excuses the first time. When I brought up that I felt upset by it, she got incredibly defensive and turned it on me after making more excuses. I value M as a friend, but it feels like they can never be wrong. I remember one of our earlier interactions where she was wrong about something and even when I proved I was right, she refused to acknowledge it. It’s frustrating, since it feels like I’m not able to ever have my feelings validated. Childhood all over again.